Everybody have some goals. Big or small, important or not so much,
everyone have some of them. And everybody tries to do something about
them.
Sometimes we try so hard that we feel overwhelmed. It looks that we just do not move forward. It feels like we have no power.
Believe me or not, but you have more power than you ever can imagine.
Even since you was a kid that power bursts out of you and helps you.
That power helped you to learn to walk. As easy and naturally as it
seem, this is such a complex thing to do. Huge laboratories, years of
research and hours of hard work create robots that just imitate our
walk. And you figured out how to walk just by yourself. You did it in a
very short time. And you can do much more than just walking in two
steps.
At that time you had the desire. You had this intention. You have
seen that others can do it, and you wanted to do it too. And then you
started to do your first attempts. Day by day, attempt by attempt, fall
by fall, you moved forward. Did those falls hurt? Of course they did.
But that was not a reason to stop. That was an opportunity to learn what
works and what doesn’t. Your persistence helped you to finally achieve
that. You did it.
Our goals are dreams, often with deadlines. And very often the way to
our goals is not so pleasant as we would like it to be. This all
creates so much frustration, so much doubt, so much worry. Very often it
scares us. But the way is not to be feared, but to be enjoyed and
appreciated. This way should be appreciated because it helps us to learn
what works and what doesn’t. It teaches us. And that is good.
In every experience it is not so important experience itself, but the
conclusion you gained from it. It is the wisdom you achieved. It is
relief that you feel when you understant it’s true purpose.
Many things happen in the way to our dreams, and that is good.
Because it helps us to feel appreciation when everything is going so
well. Bad experiences are signals that there is a better way. And when
you find out that better way, think just about it. Appreciate bad
experience for knowledge it gave you, and let it go. You don’t need it
anymore. It’s purpose is accomplished now. You don’t need to remind yourself
about it. Now you have to focus on the better way. Now you have to focus
on the better experiences. Now you have to focus on the better
feelings.
Everybody have some goals. But why do we have them? This little
detail makes goals something personal. Your reason for having it is the
only thing in the World that can make you move mountains. It is the only
thing that can make your heart sing when it is only despair arround.
Remember why you wanted something in the very beginning. Remember it
when everything is just going wrong. Remember it when everything is just
dropping out of your hands. Let the dream of getting it done come true.
And never try to do it perfect. It just is not possible. The only thing
you can do is to do the best you can do.
Let your goals lighten the way toward them.
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